I discover more each day than with many other people would take me to shovel the mainserver of Facebook, you carry a piece published today in Corriere della Sera.
The phenomenon challenged the superficiality of relationships. And many choose to delete your profile from the Network
The 'no' to social networks. Scaparro: a showcase for showing off
MILAN - "What is the advantage of showing off on a virtual square on the pretext of making online dating? He asks Fulvio Scaparro. Love in the Time of Facebook is sick, if a comedian ends up in jail on charges of sexual assault against a thirteen year-old known on the social network. And the psychologist insisted: "Friendship and love gain value with confidentiality. Their proof is in the newspaper, in dating, in the fight: they are something precious which implies slowness. I receive many letters from parents and teachers concerned. "
The enthusiasm, however, is dwindling. And the fanatics of the first hour began to think again. Why is the former boyfriend, tracked down what you do not spun in high school and now has the stomach (the well-being), without "friendship" with their favorite singer, what is Facebook? Boredom, would the Caliph. That is, people who do not felt before and after that you still do not hear; alleged "friends" who are you never even sent a message, but they are there to show to the whole "Facebookmondo" that your social network is full. The point of absurdity: the groups "I'm not on Facebook" and "I hate Facebook" cliccatissima in English, that they mean something beyond oxymoron, since we are on the "Librofaccia.
Nicola Savino no joke. "Subtitle Facebook: there is a reason if not seen for 30 years, my former classmate ...». And when he talks about his experience with the social network admits: "The monkey is three weeks. Then you have left that strange feeling: yes, who does not feel you are getting from elementary, but exchanged the usual questions about what else? And then I would not do the brunette, but Facebook is the ultimate slacker. "
The result is that more and more people decide to "commit suicide" as the jargon, deleting your profile from the Web or suspend activities, such as Daria Bignardi, who wrote in Vanity Fair: "I'm not made for love in the middle ... But with 4,959 friends and 7,096 waiting to be accepted, I understand that the anxiety is coming? ".
The party of critics is growing. "I tried to make a walk under the guise of my brother. But when I saw the ex-girlfriend of my boyfriend's "friend" of my former best friend, who in turn was a "friend" of my former psychologist, I was shocked at how easily the concept of friendship, "says the writer Clare Gamberale.
discourages the phenomenon of identity theft. He explains the Campiello Prize Debut 2006. "On Facebook, there are four Missiroli Marco, and none of me. So I became a writer asshole who does not respond to messages. It is not just a speech privacy. I do not like to force the links, speed up my emotions. Facebook is an illusion: it is a showcase capital of false reports. Has increased betrayal, divorce, violence. Am I the only write the letters as it once was? ". Has in mind the true relationships hyena Paul Kessisoglu, antidive the generalist TV: "I tried, but it took me: Facebook is a means of ensuring the quantity and not quality. For me, the progress is going back to a simpler way of life that has to do with human relationships and to feel part of nature. "
And while talking on the phone, the author barbaricino Niffoi Salvatore is in front of a pile of handwritten letters. "Reply to all, e-mail. But Facebook no, is a deadly form of voyeurs: it is like to learn to love reading porn magazines. "
Elvira Serra
eserra@corriere.it May 24, 2009
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